The short version

Australia now has two rules:

Under 16 Cannot hold a social media account (Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, YouTube, X, Reddit, etc.)
Under 18 Cannot access pornography, high-impact violence, explicit AI chatbots, or R18+ games online

The responsibility falls on the platforms, not you or your kids. There are no penalties for parents or children under these laws.

What the platforms are doing

Every major social media platform is now implementing some form of age verification for Australian users. The methods vary:

If a platform determines your child is under 16, their account will be locked or restricted. Existing accounts are being reviewed and locked retroactively.

Does this actually work?

Partially. The laws create real barriers that reduce accidental exposure to harmful content. But they're not bulletproof:

The laws are one layer of protection, not a complete solution. What you do at home still matters.

What you can do at home

1
Talk about it

These laws are in the news. Your kids have heard about them. Talk openly about why the rules exist and what they're designed to protect against. Shame-free, factual conversations work better than surveillance.

2
Review device settings

Both iOS (Screen Time) and Android (Family Link) have built-in parental controls. These work at the device level — independent of what any platform does. Set age-appropriate content restrictions, app download limits, and screen time boundaries.

3
Check which apps your kids use

The social media ban covers the obvious platforms (TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat). But kids migrate to new apps quickly. Check their device for messaging apps, anonymous social apps, or AI chatbot apps you don't recognise.

4
Know what VPNs are

If your child has a VPN app on their phone, they can bypass age restrictions entirely. VPNs are not inherently bad — they're legitimate privacy tools — but if your 14-year-old has one, it's worth a conversation about why.

5
Don't verify your child's age for them

Some parents are using their own ID to verify their child's accounts. This defeats the purpose of the law and may create legal or platform-policy complications.

Where to get help

This guide is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you're concerned about your child's online safety, contact the eSafety Commissioner at esafety.gov.au.